There are pin numbers on the board where the connector goes & also the connector has a tiny number on it somewhere too. Although, it could all be backwards. I’d say there is a possibility that both Don & Jimmy are correct… for their particular machine. It has been noticed that the K40s don’t really follow any standard conventions/wiring etc.
There’s a notch on one side of the connector. That should be next to the square pad on the pcb, which represents pin 1. If you already soldered it, it may be hard to tell, but you can look at the pic in Oshpark.
In that case, @raykholo yes, I installed it backwards. So I guess my question about reversing connections to the middleman board stands… Can I do that?