Ingentis FTW 
I have a mendel, bed is Y, printhead is X-Z…
THIS model of printer REALLY highlights the bed problem… for instance, if I infill at 0 / 90 degrees, you can turn the X infill up, like 200% speed of the Y infill, because the Y moves the bed in one direction and then has to reverse the direction of that large mass, which has much more inertia than the x carriage! Even when there is no lost steps / slipping belt, high speeds are only ‘attainable’ at the cost of quality, the frame is not super-sturdy and moving the bed quick will cause vibrations and reduce the surface quality of the part.
I’m glad I bought a “poorly engineered” printer myself, it highlights what you should look for in your next printer, and gives you inspiration to take your time, study systems and choose wisely! (but at the same time you’re still able to print!
My hot end is also a ‘bit iffy’… and I find I extrude PLA between 160-200(MAX) or it is far too hot… Every time I read tips I see ‘start at 205, go up or down if necessary’, never works if I try it.
Don’t be discouraged, be encouraged, as you say, you now have to be even more careful with your choice of settings and finding a ‘sweet spot’ of feedrate, temperature etc. You will have much more understanding if you eventually move to a ‘better engineered’ printer and should be able to tune it beyond average because you have the knowledge from your previous printer 
Should follow the Ingentis builders community if a new printer is of interest… The thing is already excellent, borrows from some of the best engineered designs in open source, is cheap, large, fast and fairly simple. As advanced as it is, it is also very young! With many innovations and new designs being made almost daily.